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What Does Proverbs 11:12 Mean?

He who is devoid of wisdom despises his neighbor,But a man of understanding holds his peace.Proverbs 11:12 · NKJV

The NKJV footnotes the first phrase with a literal rendering that connects it to several other verses in the book.

Quick answer

Contempt for a neighbor is a failure of sense, not a sign of discernment. The wise alternative here is silence.

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The NKJV footnotes "devoid of wisdom" as literally lacks heart, which is the same idiom used of the adulterer at 6:32 and the young man walking to the wrong house at 7:7. Putting neighbor-contempt in that company is a strong move: sneering at people is filed with the failures of judgment that wreck a life, not with the sharpness of someone who sees clearly. The second line's answer is restraint rather than a better opinion. A person with understanding may well have a view and simply declines to broadcast it, which the book treats as the harder and wiser thing.

Related: Proverbs 6:32 · Proverbs 7:7 · Proverbs 17:28 · Proverbs 10:19

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