Part of the king run, Proverbs 16:10–15.
Quick answer
Royal anger is lethal, arriving like messengers of death, and wisdom's response is neither panic nor bravado but de-escalation.
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In an ancient court the king's wrath was not a mood to wait out; it was a sentence in motion. Against that danger the verse sets not strength but wisdom: the wise man appeases it, and the word carries no shame here. This is the soft answer of 15:1 deployed at the highest stakes, the skill of cooling a fire that will otherwise consume you. Scripture gives the move a face: Abigail riding out to meet David's armed anger and turning it with wise words (1 Samuel 25). Where power is angry and you are not the power, wisdom talks the temperature down first.
Related: Proverbs 15:1 · Proverbs 25:15 · 1 Samuel 25:23–35
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