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What Does Proverbs 31:13 Mean?

She seeks wool and flax,And willingly works with her hands.Proverbs 31:13 · NKJV

One member of the alphabetic poem of praise, Proverbs 31:10–31: a hymn, not a checklist.

Quick answer

She hunts down raw material and works it with willing hands. The praise is in the adverb: not dutiful hands, willing ones, delight inside diligence.

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The book closes with a 22-verse acrostic, one verse for each Hebrew letter, aleph to tav, the way love makes lists, so that when the alphabet runs out you know nothing was left unsaid. The poem stands immediately after a mother's counsel to a king (31:1–9). Whether or not the mother is also the poem's speaker, its placement trains the reader, men included, to recognize and praise wisdom embodied in a woman.

Its subject is an eshet chayil, a woman of strength, capability, and valor. Chayil is a broad Hebrew word for strength, capability, resources, and standing, frequently used of warriors and capable people, and the poem inventories her formidable agency: commerce, agriculture, management, generosity, foresight, teaching, and laughter at the future. Its climax states the governing center: a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised (v. 30). Praised, not scored. This is a hymn of honor, not a weekly job description, and every member entry carries that frame, because the checklist misreading is this poem's one great occupational hazard.

What this verse contributes

This verse contributes the poem's first scene of work, and the poet salts it with pleasure: "willingly" is literally with the delight of her hands, work done from appetite rather than obligation. Wool and flax were the ancient household's clothing industry from fiber to finished garment, and "she seeks" makes her the initiator, out sourcing materials rather than waiting on them. The poem will spend many letters on her labor, and this one sets the tone for all of them: her industry is not servitude, and the praise never confuses busyness with valor. What is being honored is a strength that enjoys its own exercise.

Related: Proverbs 14:23 · Colossians 3:23

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