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What Does Proverbs 31:25 Mean?

Strength and honor are her clothing;She shall rejoice in time to come.Proverbs 31:25 · NKJV

One member of the 22-verse alphabetic poem, Proverbs 31:10–31, in which each verse begins with the next Hebrew letter. A hymn of praise, not a job description.

Quick answer

She can laugh at the future because of what she is wearing: strength and honor, not anxiety. This verse belongs to an alphabet of praise for a woman of valor. It celebrates her; it was never designed to measure you.

Read the whole unit

The book closes with a 22-verse acrostic, one verse for each Hebrew letter, aleph to tav, the way love makes lists, so that when the alphabet runs out you know nothing was left unsaid. The poem stands immediately after a mother's counsel to a king (31:1–9). Whether or not the mother is also the poem's speaker, its placement trains the reader, men included, to recognize and praise wisdom embodied in a woman.

Its subject is an eshet chayil, a woman of strength, capability, and valor. Chayil is a broad Hebrew word for strength, capability, resources, and standing, frequently used of warriors and capable people, and the poem inventories her formidable agency: commerce, agriculture, management, generosity, foresight, teaching, and laughter at the future. Its climax states the governing center: a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised (v. 30). Praised, not scored. This is a hymn of honor, not a weekly job description, and every member entry carries that frame, because the checklist misreading is this poem's one great occupational hazard.

What this verse contributes

This is the poem's line about the future, and the logic runs through the clothing. She rejoices at what is coming, literally laughs at it, not because she controls tomorrow but because of what she wears today: strength and honor, dignity that circumstances did not issue and cannot repossess. The letter also gathers the poem's clothing thread: scarlet for the household (v. 21), linen and purple for herself (v. 22), and now the garments under the garments. In an alphabet of praise, this letter says: look how unafraid she is.

What it does not mean

Pulled onto a mug, this verse becomes a standard: a truly godly woman laughs at the future, so if you are anxious about yours, you are failing the verse. That reading gets the direction backwards. The poem is not assigning fearlessness as homework; it is admiring a woman whose dignity is her wardrobe. Nobody in this poem is being graded, and neither is the woman reading it.

From this side of the cross

Strength and honor make fine clothing, and in Christ they are given, not earned. Clothed people can afford to laugh at the future.

Related: Proverbs 31:30 · Proverbs 3:25–26

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