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Proverbs 3

35 verses, grouped into the passages they belong to.

Trust in the LORD

Proverbs 3:1–12

The father's lecture on trusting the LORD is built with unusual symmetry: six pairs of verses, each an instruction followed by its outcome.

Proverbs 3:1
My son, do not forget my law, But let your heart keep my commands;

A father asks his son to hold what he has been taught, not with a filing cabinet but with a heart: instruction kept the way you keep something you love.

Proverbs 3:2
For length of days and long life And peace they will add to you.

Kept wisdom tends to lengthen life and deepen peace: the observed grain of the world, not a signed guarantee.

Proverbs 3:3
Let not mercy and truth forsake you; Bind them around your neck, Write them on the tablet of your heart,

Mercy and truth, the covenant pair of loyal love and faithfulness, are to be worn like a necklace and written where nothing can erase them: on the heart.

Proverbs 3:4
And so find favor and high esteem In the sight of God and man.

The outcome of a life marked by mercy and truth: favor and a good name, before God and before people.

Proverbs 3:5
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;

Put your full weight on the LORD, not on your own ability to figure life out. Trust here is not a feeling but a transfer of weight: what you lean on is what you are trusting.

Proverbs 3:6
In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He shall direct your paths.

Know the LORD in every part of your life, not just the religious parts, and He straightens the road ahead: a path cleared and made walkable, for the person whose whole life is lived before Him.

Proverbs 3:7
Do not be wise in your own eyes; Fear the LORD and depart from evil.

The negative image of verse 5: do not crown your own judgment. Being "wise in your own eyes" is the book's most hopeless condition; the cure is a right orientation toward the LORD.

Proverbs 3:8
It will be health to your flesh, And strength to your bones.

Humble trust is good for the body: healing for the flesh, refreshment for the bones, a whole person doing better.

Proverbs 3:9
Honor the LORD with your possessions, And with the firstfruits of all your increase;

Honor the LORD with what you own, from the first of what comes in, not the leftovers. Firstfruits giving hands over the first portion before you know whether the rest of the harvest will come.

Proverbs 3:10
So your barns will be filled with plenty, And your vats will overflow with new wine.

The outcome attached to firstfruits giving: full barns and overflowing vats. Covenant blessing language describing how generosity ordinarily fares under God's government, not a contract in which giving obligates God to multiply your money.

Proverbs 3:11
My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD, Nor detest His correction;

Do not write off the LORD's correction, and do not let it make you bitter. Chastening here is training language, a father shaping a son.

Proverbs 3:12
For whom the LORD loves He corrects, Just as a father the son in whom he delights.

The LORD's correction flows from His love, the way a good father's correction flows from delight in his son. Discipline in this verse is proof of belonging, not evidence of rejection.

Happy Is the One Who Finds Wisdom

Proverbs 3:13–20

Between the chapter's two lectures, it pauses to sing.

Proverbs 3:13
Happy is the man who finds wisdom, And the man who gains understanding;

The person who finds wisdom is happy, blessed, deeply well off. The poem opens with a congratulation, not a command.

Proverbs 3:14
For her proceeds are better than the profits of silver, And her gain than fine gold.

Wisdom out-earns precious metal. The verse talks like a merchant, proceeds, profits, gain, and reports that wisdom's returns beat silver and gold on their own terms.

Proverbs 3:15
She is more precious than rubies, And all the things you may desire cannot compare with her.

Wisdom outranks not only silver and gold but rubies, and then the verse closes the auction entirely: nothing you could desire compares.

Proverbs 3:16
Length of days is in her right hand, In her left hand riches and honor.

Wisdom is pictured with full hands: long life in her right, riches and honor in her left. What she was just valued above, she turns out to carry.

Proverbs 3:17
Her ways are ways of pleasantness, And all her paths are peace.

Wisdom's roads are good roads: the travel itself, not just the destination, is marked by pleasantness and peace.

Proverbs 3:18
She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her, And happy are all who retain her.

Wisdom is a tree of life: take hold of her and something of Eden's vitality comes back within reach. The poem closes where it opened, with happiness.

Proverbs 3:19
The LORD by wisdom founded the earth; By understanding He established the heavens;

The wisdom just offered to the reader is the wisdom by which the LORD built the world.

Proverbs 3:20
By His knowledge the depths were broken up, And clouds drop down the dew.

God's knowledge runs the waters: the deep springs that broke open and the dew that settles overnight. Creation's largest convulsions and its smallest kindnesses, one wisdom.

Sound Wisdom and Your Neighbor

Proverbs 3:21–35

The father's lecture on wisdom and the neighbor moves in three sweeps.

Proverbs 3:21
My son, let them not depart from your eyes— Keep sound wisdom and discretion;

Keep sound wisdom and discretion where you can see them: sustained attention, because what leaves the eyes soon leaves the life.

Proverbs 3:22
So they will be life to your soul And grace to your neck.

Kept wisdom becomes life on the inside and grace on the outside: vitality for the soul, and the adornment a well-lived life wears in public.

Proverbs 3:23
Then you will walk safely in your way, And your foot will not stumble.

The person who keeps wisdom in view walks a safer road: a traveler whose footing holds through ordinary days.

Proverbs 3:24
When you lie down, you will not be afraid; Yes, you will lie down and your sleep will be sweet.

Wisdom's security follows you to bed: the person whose life is ordered by sound wisdom lies down without dread, because the day behind them holds no ambushes waiting to spring.

Proverbs 3:25
Do not be afraid of sudden terror, Nor of trouble from the wicked when it comes;

Do not live braced for catastrophe. Sudden terror and the trouble the wicked cause are real, the verse says "when it comes," not "if", but the wise are not required to fear them in advance.

Proverbs 3:26
For the LORD will be your confidence, And will keep your foot from being caught.

The reason the wise can walk safely and sleep unafraid: the LORD Himself is their confidence. The security of vv. 21–25 was never self-assurance.

Proverbs 3:27
Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, When it is in the power of your hand to do so.

If good is owed and your hand can deliver it, deliver it. The quietest form of wrongdoing is not doing harm, just not doing the good that was yours to do.

Proverbs 3:28
Do not say to your neighbor, "Go, and come back, And tomorrow I will give it," When you have it with you.

Do not make a neighbor come back tomorrow for what you could hand over today. Delay dressed up as scheduling is still withholding.

Proverbs 3:29
Do not devise evil against your neighbor, For he dwells by you for safety's sake.

Do not plot against the neighbor who lives beside you trusting that beside you is a safe place to live. The verse forbids treachery: harm devised against someone whose guard is down because of you.

Proverbs 3:30
Do not strive with a man without cause, If he has done you no harm.

Do not pick fights. Conflict with a man who has done you no harm is conflict manufactured.

Proverbs 3:31
Do not envy the oppressor, And choose none of his ways;

Do not envy the man who wins by force, and do not imitate him. The command takes aim at the moment violence starts to look like a strategy because it appears to be working.

Proverbs 3:32
For the perverse person is an abomination to the LORD, But His secret counsel is with the upright.

The reason not to envy the oppressor: the LORD finds the crooked man abhorrent, while the upright are brought inside His confidence. One man has winnings; the other has the friendship of God.

Proverbs 3:33
The curse of the LORD is on the house of the wicked, But He blesses the home of the just.

The LORD's stance reaches the household: His curse rests on the house built by wickedness, His blessing on the home of the just. Trajectories under God's government, not luck.

Proverbs 3:34
Surely He scorns the scornful, But gives grace to the humble.

The LORD answers scorn with scorn and meets humility with grace. Whoever mocks his way through life finds God unimpressed; whoever comes low finds Him generous.

Proverbs 3:35
The wise shall inherit glory, But shame shall be the legacy of fools.

Two estates are being written: the wise inherit glory, honor that comes as a bequest, while shame is what fools leave and receive.

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