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Proverbs 18

24 verses, grouped into the passages they belong to.

Proverbs 18:1
A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; He rages against all wise judgment.

The isolation warned against here is willful: a man walls himself off so nothing can contradict him, and meets sound wisdom with rage. A portrait of self-imposed deafness, not a rebuke of solitude or of the wounded person catching their breath.

Proverbs 18:2
A fool has no delight in understanding, But in expressing his own heart.

The fool's problem is not a weak mind but a misplaced delight: he does not enjoy understanding, he enjoys broadcasting.

Proverbs 18:3
When the wicked comes, contempt comes also; And with dishonor comes reproach.

Wickedness never travels alone. It arrives with luggage: contempt, dishonor, reproach, an atmosphere that walks in when the wicked walk in.

Proverbs 18:4
The words of a man's mouth are deep waters; The wellspring of wisdom is a flowing brook.

Words come from somewhere deep, and wise words keep coming: speech rises from a person's hidden reservoirs, and wisdom's spring stays fresh and flowing.

Proverbs 18:5
It is not good to show partiality to the wicked, Or to overthrow the righteous in judgment.

Tilting a verdict is evil at both ends: favoring the guilty and railroading the innocent are one corruption wearing two faces.

Proverbs 18:6
A fool's lips enter into contention, And his mouth calls for blows.

The fool's mouth walks him into fights, entering quarrels the way feet enter a room, and escalating until it has practically ordered the beating it receives.

Proverbs 18:7
A fool's mouth is his destruction, And his lips are the snare of his soul.

The fool carries his ruin between his teeth: his mouth is his destruction, his own lips the trap his soul steps into. Self-caught, no hunter required.

Proverbs 18:8
The words of a talebearer are like tasty trifles, And they go down into the inmost body.

Gossip is delicious, and that is exactly the problem: the talebearer's words go down like delicacies and lodge in the inmost body. The proverb explains why gossip spreads. It tastes good.

Proverbs 18:9
He who is slothful in his work Is a brother to him who is a great destroyer.

Laziness and destruction are family: the slacker and the wrecker arrive at the same ruins by different roads.

Proverbs 18:10
The name of the LORD is a strong tower; The righteous run to it and are safe.

The LORD Himself, everything His name declares Him to be, is a fortress you can run into. The righteous do exactly that and are set on high, the footnote's literal reading. Safety, in this verse, is not a place but a Person.

Proverbs 18:11
The rich man's wealth is his strong city, And like a high wall in his own esteem.

Money feels like a fortress, and the proverb lets the feeling stand for one line before puncturing it: the wall is high "in his own esteem." A real shelter against many things, an imagined one against the things that matter most.

Proverbs 18:12
Before destruction the heart of a man is haughty, And before honor is humility.

Two destinations, two approach roads: haughtiness runs toward destruction, humility toward honor. Check the road and you can read the destination early.

Proverbs 18:13
He who answers a matter before he hears it, It is folly and shame to him.

Answering before hearing is folly wearing its own name tag: a verdict issued before the trial, shaming the judge rather than the defendant.

Proverbs 18:14
The spirit of a man will sustain him in sickness, But who can bear a broken spirit?

The spirit carries the body, but nothing beneath the spirit carries it. When the inner life itself breaks, the verse honors the weight by asking instead of telling.

Proverbs 18:15
The heart of the prudent acquires knowledge, And the ear of the wise seeks knowledge.

The wise are acquirers: heart and ear both stay in the market for knowledge, because wisdom is not a diploma but an appetite.

Proverbs 18:16
A man's gift makes room for him, And brings him before great men.

In the world the sages watched, a well-placed present opened doors and got a man an audience with the powerful. This is a court observation about how access works, close to cynical and completely honest. It is not a promise that your talent or anointing will earn you a platform.

Proverbs 18:17
The first one to plead his cause seems right, Until his neighbor comes and examines him.

The first story always sounds true: whoever speaks first frames the facts. The proverb installs a waiting period between hearing one side and believing it.

Proverbs 18:18
Casting lots causes contentions to cease, And keeps the mighty apart.

Sometimes an impartial procedure can end a dispute that argument cannot. When two powerful parties deadlock, the lot closes the quarrel precisely because neither side can rig it or lose face to the other.

Proverbs 18:19
A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, And contentions are like the bars of a castle.

An offended brother fortifies: winning him back is harder than taking a walled city, because the quarrel has built castle bars across a door that once stood open.

Proverbs 18:20
A man's stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth; From the produce of his lips he shall be filled.

You eat your own words: what the mouth produces comes back to the table as a life's actual diet, for better or worse.

Proverbs 18:21
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.

The tongue carries real power over death and life: words crush and heal, end things and start them, and everyone who loves talking will eat what their talking grows. The Bible's strongest statement about the weight of words. Not a teaching that words are incantations which create your reality.

Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.

A wife is a find, a good one, and behind the finding stands the LORD's favor. The verse celebrates marriage as gift rather than achievement.

Proverbs 18:23
The poor man uses entreaties, But the rich answers roughly.

Poverty pleads and wealth barks: the poor man must ask softly because he has no leverage, and the rich man can answer roughly because he has never needed anyone's patience.

Proverbs 18:24
A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Friendship's two ends: the many companions a man collects, and the one friend who out-sticks family. Whichever way the debated first line is read, the point survives: quantity of friends is no substitute for the one who stays.

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